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germinate shawl on rocks
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field of flags 2
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color affection with edge
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cedar leaf shawlette 2
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Self Talk Matters

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I went to bed last night without prepping a blog post for today. I was tired and, while it had been a great weekend, it hadn’t been one that included a lot of photos or stuff to tell you about. I figured I’d think of something when I got up this morning.

I woke in the middle of the night and as I was lying there I tried to think of something to blog about. I thought to myself, just two words . . . you just need two words and you know a whole post will follow from there. And for a beat nothing came to me. And then the two words came:

You loser.

Yep. The two words I thought of when trying to come up with something for y’all to read today were you loser. It devolved from there.

You loser. You can’t even come up with a simple post for a Monday. You were too lazy to take pictures so you can’t share about your weekend. You’ve been doing this too long and you’re just retelling the same stale stories. Your knitting isn’t that great and yet you call this a knitting blog. And really, who cares anyway? No one blogs anymore, you’re just holding on for your own ego, no one would even notice if you stopped . . .

I could continue but you get the idea. And here’s the thing: if one of you came to me and said, ugh, I can’t think of anything to blog about, I wouldn’t call you a name. I wouldn’t suggest that you not bother because no one cares about your blog. Nope. What I would do is I would start coming up with suggestions for you. Just sit down and write, I would say. The words will come. Think about something you cooked or read, tell the story of your weekend, post a pretty picture you took and talk about why you are sharing it . . . oh, I could go on and on if I wasn’t talking to myself.

If it was you that needed help I would be kind. And that’s really my point . . . we need to be as kind to ourselves as we are to others. We need to talk to ourselves the way we talk to others, with love and encouragement and compassion.

So. My post for this Monday? The lesson I need to take to heart and maybe you might to?

Talk to yourself the way you talk to the person you love most in the world.

 

 

2018 Blog Recap

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I’m taking a cue from Vicki and wrapping up my year of blogging in words (the first sentence of the first post of each month) and pictures (a favorite photo from each month) — the two are not necessarily related.

January 2018:
As I have for the past several years, I have chosen a word for 2018 and that word is kind.

February 2018:
Your mileage may vary but to me it felt like January just draggggged itself out longer than usual.

March 2018:
You know what’s coming up this Sunday, right? It’s THE OSCARS!

April 2018:
It was another whirlwind weekend of fun, campaigning and more.

May 2018:
I’m going to warn you right now – if you are hungry don’t continue any further.

June 2018:
This picture of the bridal wreath in our front yard is from about a week ago, the shrub is past it’s peak now.

July 2018:
I’m back and want you to know that we had an absolutely wonderful week in Maine!

August 2018:
It’s hard to believe that today is August 1st.

September 2018:
August was a really great month full of family and fun, vacation and good food, plenty of cocktails and plenty of time outside.

October 2018:
Sometimes Mondays aren’t just the start of a new week they are also the start of a new month.

November 2018:
This week on Three on Thursday I’ve got three random photos (with explanations) for you.

December 2018:
We had a super Christmas-y weekend here at Carole Knits!

I don’t know if you loved this or not but it was a super fun look back over the year for me. And it was really hard to choose just one photo for each month. I tried not to let it be All-Jackie-All-the-Time but I definitely wanted to choose a photo of people each month and not just food or flowers!

And with that I am taking the rest of the year off. Good bye 2018!

I’ll catch you all on January 1, 2019.

Three On Thursday

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It’s just about time for our Kiwanis club’s annual Field of Flags event and today, as a shameless plug, I’m going to tell you three reasons why this is a fundraiser YOU may want to support.

  1. We place 1000 flags on our town common. 1000 flags. That’s a lot of flags, friends, and it’s a beautiful thing to see for two whole weeks. Each flag placed on the common is in memory or honor of someone special – a beloved husband or father, a courageous soldier, an honored friend. When I drive past the common I see so much more than flags – I see a community that has come together, I see the faces of soldiers that have given the ultimate sacrifice for us, and I see the faces of families who desperately need the services that Fisher House has to offer them. I feel a huge sense of pride every time I drive by and see them all waving in the wind. Pride in our flag but also pride in this club for organizing this event every year.
  2. We give away all of the money we raise from this event. Each flag is $10 but we also take donations in any amount and all of the money  we collect is ultimately split between our club and The Fisher House of Boston. I’ve talked about The Fisher House before but the amazing work they do really hit home for us when my father-in-law was at the VA Hospital in Boston for weeks and weeks last summer. We met people staying at The Fisher House and their praise and appreciation for that place was beyond measure. It was wonderful to hear about the great work that is done by the people who work at and volunteer at The Fisher House and know that we had a part in that due to this very special fundraiser. The money that stays in our town goes to support all of the charities we help, from scholarships for graduating seniors to our two food pantries and more. I love that this fundraiser gives us the ability to spread that money around!
  3. Dale is President of Kiwanis right now and our friend Chuck is the Chair of this event and I’d love to see it be hugely successful for them. Yes, this is pretty much a selfish reason on my part but given all the good that ultimately comes from this I think it’s okay to have one tiny selfish reason for wanting lots of donations.

If you’re inclined to make a donation (in any amount, it doesn’t have to be $10) you can do so here. Or, if you don’t want to make an online donation, leave me a comment and I’ll tell you where you can send a check. Thanks, friends.

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One Day More

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I’m extending the weekend a smidge. I’ll catch you up tomorrow!

In the meantime, Happy Monday!

April Vacation

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One of the things Dale and I put on our list of 18 in 2018 was to travel somewhere new. Yesterday we flew to Nashville and that means we can check that item off our list!

It also means we can eat and drink our way from one end of this awesome town to the next!

I’ll catch y’all later!