I wrote in my Morning Pages today about Thanksgiving memories. The ones from my childhood…
A Week of Gratitude: Journaling for Self Care
It’s the week of Thanksgiving and it feels like the right time to write about gratitude. I’ve done this in the past on the Thursdays leading up to this holiday but I’m doing it differently this year. And I’m freestyling this, writing about whatever comes to mind at the time and I’m hoping some of it might be unusual. Let’s face it, I’ve covered the big (typical stuff) I’m thankful for plenty of times: Dale and the kids, my extended family, my job and my home, my health, and pets. I think it will be interesting to take a closer look at the smaller, irregular things that pop up when I think about gratitude.
Today it feels like journaling is the think to write about. I am so thankful for this practice and how it has evolved over the years. I started out with a Studio Oh deconstructed journal in 2016 and I’ve consisted journaled ever since. Oh, sure, I had dabbled in and out of the practice for my entire adult life, but it was that journal that solidified the ritual for me. I now call that my junk journal and I don’t use Studio Oh anymore but switched to an A5 Leuchtturm1917 earlier this year and I love this one.
I also keep a gratitude journal and I’ve been using Studio Oh for that since I started it over 5 years ago. However, Studio Oh no longer makes that journal and the one I’m using is almost full so I need to make a switch. I think a B6 is about the same size so I’ll be looking for a new one soon. Now, some people struggle with a gratitude journal and I get that because really, how many days in a row can you write that you are grateful for coffee (all of them, my friends, all of them) so my approach to a gratitude journal is slightly different. I write in it first thing every morning and I list 5 good things that happened the day before. It’s more like a . . . highlight reel . . . of my days and that has been very sustainable for me. It’s really interesting to go back and read through these, too.
I use a daily planner as a journal of sorts, writing down lists and creating meal plans, keeping track of meetings and appointments, using washi tape and stickers and Tombow markers to personalize all of it. This summer I started doing morning pages and I have consistently written 3 stream of consciousness pages in a Tomoe River paper notebook first thing in the morning, right after I write my gratitude list. This has resulted in a huge breakthrough in my creative process and I’ll be sharing more about that eventually. Finally, I have field notebooks, one for keeping track of the books I read and one for notes about my garden.
I’m happy to share specific products and sources for pens, journals, stickers, and more if you’re interested.
This may seem like a lot to someone who isn’t a writer, but for me it’s so natural to keep track of my life and ideas, hopes and dreams, and more by documenting them in this way. I’m grateful to have found a practice that works for productivity and also self-care. These journals help me to process my feelings, keep track of what matters, and work creatively.
And that’s why I’m grateful for journaling.
Being someone who does to journal and barely even makes lists of things, this seems like a lot to me…a lot of writing, a lot of time, etc., etc. BUT…it obviously works for you and that is great. I will also confess that each time you write about journaling I am tempted to get a notebook and start. LOL. But then I do not.
…someone who does not journal….
Thank you for this reminder that I promised you to share my journal practice. I was going to pass on Friday, but I think that would the a great day to share my journal practice.
I am grateful that you share what works for you because you do inspire me! XO
I always love to read about journaling practices so thank you for this. I am dabbling with some new ideas and would love to hear what pens you like for the Tomoe river paper.
You’re right; it does sound like a lot of time and writing to me (who doesn’t journal). But I’m glad that you’ve found what works for you and you clearly enjoy it. I hope this doesn’t sound morbid, but I think your journals will be a gift when you are no longer around. We’ve got John’s grandmother’s journals and they are fascinating to read. Sometimes it’s just the weather, how many bales of hay they got, and what they picked in the garden. But there were some big days in her life and on those days she often wrote about what she thought and felt. Those are the real treasures.
I don’t journal anymore, but I did when I was young and single. After my husband died, a neighbor who is also a widow, encouraged me to journal about my grief. I have tried, but I am very resistant to it. I guess I need to explore why. I admire your commitment.
I love that you’ve got a whole system that works for you and your different forms of writing. And it sounds like in addition to what you get out of writing, you’ve made it a whole sensory experience with your choice of notebooks, pens, and embellishments. Those are all things to be grateful for!
I love writing in my gratitude journal each morning. It’s a great way to start my day.
I use a couple of journals and have wanted to try morning pages. I had tried a gratitude journal but it wasn’t working for me. I like how you use it as an opportunity to note all the good that has happened. Thanks for sharing your journaling practice.
Journaling is such a personal thing. I’m so glad you’ve found a practice that works so well for you, Carole! XO